fathers cast "long shadows"
Never knowing my father, has surely influenced the course of my life, for better or worse. Not that I grew up dwelling on my loss, because I knew no better. Life with my mom was, what it was. However years of observing father-child relationships, including my husband's and daughter's, and being privy to others telling or writing, of their own experiences, made me realize that being fatherless probably impacted my life in a major way.