Written a few months ago, however it seemed appropriate to the holiday season when families can be a bit more sensitive to one another.
We all need to set aside our anxieties and…
…celebrate our true selves.
I’m not a therapist, so I’m not going to pretend to be an expert on the topic of family roles. All I know about the subject is from my personal experience, in learning about, and working on, healing my addiction to the role I have played.
According to many family therapists, there are four dominant roles that children play in dysfunctional families. I believe everyone knows what a dysfunctional family is, but if you’re wondering and not sure, I’ll give you a textbook definition. I remember, when I began my healing journey, hearing John Bradshaw say that 98% of families have some form of dysfunction.
Definition of a dysfunction family: A term used to describe a family where conflict, misbehavior, and abuse of varying degrees and types continually takes place. Dysfunctional families are continuously out of balance and often teeter on the edge of crisis, or they may be in continual crisis. The family…
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