I can only imagine what went through Pat’s mind yesterday as she learned how her life will unfold going forward.
We all try to take each day as it comes.
For most of us it’s a simple undertaking. It’s the same old, same old. There may be a few variations on the theme, and some can be major…like changing jobs…retiring…moving to a new home…having a baby.
Life-threatening illnesses, however, takes it to a whole other level. One for which no amount of preparing, mentally and physically, can ever be enough.
Pat’s journey with multiple myeloma and amyloidosis is daunting, to say the least.
It’s like walking through a tunnel, not knowing what the darkness holds in store along the way.
Holding onto hope and positive thoughts are like the light at the end of the tunnel. And that’s what human survival is all about. Hanging on with all of our might.
That’s what God intended when He gave us life. He meant for us to squeeze every ounce of goodness from His gift.
Happiness is that warm, fuzzy feeling when something good lights us up…from the inside out. And that feeling occurs in small and large doses throughout our lives.
Never give up on happiness. It’s there for the taking. We just have to accept it.
And why wouldn’t we? It doesn’t make sense to turn away from it.
Don’t worry! Be happy! As the song tells us.
Easier said than done. Perhaps. And yet what’s the alternative?
Letting life slip away without any say in the matter?
That’s not Pat’s style.
…and it’s never been mine.
………hugmamma.
(Enjoy other inspirational thoughts at
https://beccagivens.wordpress.com/2015/01/29/nurturing-thurs-boiling-water/
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I always try to find some humor each day, even in simple things. Laughing definitely helps. It beats crying every time. Hugs. 🙂
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I definitely prefer to laugh. Crying drains me of everything. Too much work…
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Hi Hugmamma, living in the present moment and enjoying the tiny pleasures around, this way the mind can help the body get better. Hugs to you and Pat!
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Aloha for the support and kind words. They help Pat keep her sunny disposition. Me too. 🙂
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I will keep Pat in prayer! Positive attitude adds to the hope, faith, and resilience to enter the unknown of battle! Keep her supplied with laughter, uplifting music, movies, books etc. May she squeeze every last drop of each in every day on her journey!
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Lots of hugs, Becca for those beautiful words of encouragement. My sister-in-law reads all my posts, including comments left. Just as I have been encouraged to continue writing because of the supportive comments left, I know Pat is encouraged to never give up, for life’s essence is truly revealed in each moment we allow ourselves to savor fully. God bless you for…Nurturing Thursdays…and nurturing always. ❤
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Love the positive attitude… we should always try to smile..come what may. Great spirit and courage…kudos to her…
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Your words of support and encouragement mean so much to Pat and me. Knowing others are sharing in her journey to live her best life means she IS…LIVING HER BEST LIFE. ❤
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