It’s been 2 years since I gave birth to hugmamma’s mind, body, and soul. I did it in response to events that unfolded in the media like Barnum and Bailey‘s Three Ring Circus. The first was the 2008 Presidential Election; the second, Michael Jackson’s death. Like many, I remained glued to my TV set for days on end.
What finally got me to put my thoughts into a blog was hearing the same refrain over and over again…”The American people feel…”
I often babbled to myself “How the heck do they know what I think?” and “Who said they could speak for me?” Tell me you don’t have the same thoughts when you hear the pundits spinning their half-truths, or downright lies?
Well some things never change.
Here we are again…smack dab in the middle of another Presidential Election. Complete with the same spinning…day in…day out.
I won’t lie though. I love the high octane excitement, the back and forth, the “he saids” and the “he meants.” However I still cringe when I hear…”The American people feel…”
While little has changed on the outside…there’s been movement within.
The change hasn’t been seismic. On the Richter scale…maybe a 2. Just enough for me to notice.
Two years ago, blogging was a new adventure for me.
At first I dabbled, writing more introspectively. I regurgitated the beauty I saw in the world around me. I reveled in happy thoughts and memories. My words were measured. I had no desire to tackle controversy, not wanting to offend. Never mind that I might be offended.
As I broadened my horizons to include other members of the Word Press community of bloggers, their realities seeped into mine…and mine into theirs.
Not all the stories I read had fairy tale endings. Not all writers came from happy places. Some came from dysfunction, as had I. Many sought encouragement and confirmation, as did I. There were safe havens. Places to go…for kind words, compassion, hope.
I was emboldened to take a stand. Speak my mind…my truth. And I supported the efforts of others to do the same.
Strangers…some who became friends…affirmed my thoughts, feelings, and opinions. Feeling encouraged, I moved forward taking control of my own life.
There was no looking back as I made my way, a day at a time.
I realized however, that my newfound confidence must be tempered with a large dose of humility. Having a following of readers is heady stuff. It can become an ego trip. Focusing too much upon becoming popular, as in how many hits are garnered, can lead one astray from one’s goal.
My goal has always been to write, and write well. If I publish a book someday, as some have suggested I do, that will be a bonus beyond what I’ve already accomplished.
With a lot of help from all of you, I’ve learned to accept who I am. I’ve gained the strength to stand firm in my convictions. I’m comfortable in my own skin. Others’ opinions matter, but no longer to my own detriment.
Like the caterpillar that metamorphoses into the butterfly and the chameleon that adapts to its surroundings, I’ve gone from being a wise, old coot at 61…to being a wiser, older coot at 63.
Perfect I ain’t. I’ve still got the same body in need of repairs now and then. I don’t always eat right…and exercise regularly. I’m always behind the eight-ball when it comes to paying my respects to fellow bloggers…and accepting awards from some. I still lack some technological know-how.
I still make mistakes.
In spite of my shortcomings, and who doesn’t have a few, I’ve planted my feet firmly and proclaimed to the world…
…i have arrived…and i ain’t going back…