…my daughter…my only sunshine.
How did my little girl go from shadowing me one minute…to standing apart, aglow in a life all her own?
I can remember hearing folks in my mom’s generation saying of children…”Enjoy them while you can. They grow up so fast.” I too say that to young parents now, more out of habit than something to which I truly subscribe.
I think my husband would have preferred carrying his little “pumpkin pie” about on his shoulders…just a little longer. And building igloos together with her in the icy snow that covered our front lawn…just a little longer. And reading bedtime stories in the soft glow of the lamplight, her little head against his chest…just a little longer.
As for me? I wanted tomorrow to come…and the one after that…and the one after that…and all the tomorrows to follow . I wanted time to pass, knowing that with each passing year my only child was still here, beside me. Not until my husband and I celebrated 16 years of marriage did we become parents. Because of that I always felt she could be gone…in the blink of an eye.
Still do.
Like other parents, I hoped I’d live to see my daughter grow into adulthood…and settle into a marriage with someone who would cherish her for the wonderful person she is. Whether or not she bears us a grandchild is unimportant. She, and the son we gain through marriage, are gift enough for us. Of course we would celebrate a little addition to the family…if that is God’s wish.
And so with my daughter’s marriage, I can finally breathe a sigh of relief, passing the torch of all-consuming love along to her husband-to-be. Although the love I bear my daughter will always glimmer and burn so that she will never, ever...be afraid of the dark.
I’m certain my precious little girl will always remember what I told her long, long ago.
When I’m gone from your side, I’ll still be with you…like a blankie wrapped around your heart…warming you always.
………hugmamma.
Check out more inspirational writings at…
https://beccagivens.wordpress.com/2015/09/17/nurt-thurs-biggest-step-2/
I’m catching up with blogs I read and just saw this. Congratulations to your daughter, her fiance, you, and your husband. I wish you all joy for the coming days.
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Many thanks, Suzanne, for the well wishes. Our family is blessed with the addition of our son-in-law to be… 🙂
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Wonderful news, so happy for you! 😀
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lots of hugs for the well wishes…
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I think these things every day of my life. My baby is 32 and has two babies of his own. And I wonder where my life has gone. And then I see. Its gone into him, and into my grandchildren. You, too, are blessed.
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Our lives indeed evolve into those of our children. They continue where we…leave off. Lots of hugs to you…always.
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Hi hugmamma, lovely post, kids grow so fast, mine are teens now, and I am already thinking how it will be the day they will leave far away from me. Congrats, and like you said, you are getting a son now, the family is increasing. Happy weekend!
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God bless you and your children as they become the adults you have encouraged them to be. hugs and a very wonderful Sunday to you…
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Ohhhhh…hugmamma…. what an abundance of goodness, blessings and love you’ve passed along to you beloved daughter…and what a blessing that she’ll be sharing that enormous gift of love with her husband to be….now, both of their hearts will be wrapped up inside your warm blankie-of-love….I’m so happy for all of you…. 😀
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I can feel your blanket of nurturing inspiration all the way over here. hugs for the warmth…
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Wonderful! The times does go by in the blink of an eye! It is kind of sad in a way. Of course we want our children to grow up and do well in life but we often don’t realized how we will feel when that happens. It’s kind of a catch 22 situation.
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Time does fly. My body tells me so every day. I realize that as my daughter gets older…so do I. And while I’m nearing my expiration date, so to speak, I wouldn’t change anything. I’m happy seeing that my daughter’s life is working out just fine. hugs for commenting…we’ve been out of touch, but i still consider you a dear friend.
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My pumpkin pie will always be my little girl. Biutterfly kisses speak volumes of how i’ll feel as i giveher away…….
Pops
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we’ve been blest…you and me…
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Congratulations! So happy for you! Very exciting times ahead.
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hugs for the well wishes, lisa…lots of hugs.
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Congratulations! So happy for you!
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I can always count on you to be on my side of life, Lisa…wishing me and mine well, always. hugs…
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Ahh, quite a milestone for you both! Welcome back, and thank you for sharing with Nurturing Thursday! 😀
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The ladies of NT are like family…
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